Relationship lost its spark? Follow these tips to fire up the flames of intimacy again. Quality time An evening of no phones, no kids, no interruptions. Whether it’s a dinner prepared at home by you or a night out and about… as long as it’s just the two of you. And while you’re together, avoid negative conversations – especially those that involve the evils of money. Be verbal. •    Tell your man that you love him. And say the three words often. •    Remind him of how important he is in your life. •    Make him feel special by complimenting him more. •    Show appreciation when he’s done something that’s made you feel good. Play more. You may be 20, 30 or even 50 years old, but that does not mean you cannot be spontaneous. Go out and do something fun, like ten-pin bowling, go-karting, a midnight stroll along the beach, a hike… You could even take it a step further and surprise with tickets (for both of you) to see his favourite sports team in action. Showing interest and making an effort goes a long way in strengthening your bond. Love letter. You may think it’s cheesy, but it’s actually very romantic. Write about when you two first met and highlight some of the things the things he does that makes you smile and admire. It’s not an essay or thesis, the only research you will need is buried within your heart. Show your romantic side. Keep the intimacy high with unexpected kisses, hand-holding, bathing and showering together… Showing affection keeps the fire burning and if you are going to do the dance, remember to seduce him first.